{"id":42041,"date":"2023-04-17T14:27:44","date_gmt":"2023-04-17T14:27:44","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/emswitchgear.com\/?p=42041"},"modified":"2023-04-17T14:27:44","modified_gmt":"2023-04-17T14:27:44","slug":"dating-in-your-50s-easy-for-men-not-so-much-for-women","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/emswitchgear.com\/index.php\/2023\/04\/17\/dating-in-your-50s-easy-for-men-not-so-much-for-women\/","title":{"rendered":"Dating In Your 50s Easy For Men Not So Much For Women!"},"content":{"rendered":"

Growing old together is not a problem, but starting out feeling very mismatched is. I\u2019m 50 yrs old almost 51 and have absolutely no problem attracting men. At one time I had no less than 15 male friends between ages of in my phone. Some I met personally\u2026some on dating site\u2026others school mates. All very interested in having a serious relationship.<\/p>\n

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I feel your pain Jeffery and can relate 100% to everything you wrote. Am 54 and I tend to date women in their late 30s to early 50s. I am a professional but I am not willing to be a sugar daddy to get sex or companionship. It\u2019s not necessary for an attractive professional male who has it together. Although it seems that most age groups want to be wined and dined especially if they think you are able to do so. I try to avoid women looking for freebies or are entitled.<\/p>\n

Of course, it is personal but when he did that he was only thinking of himself. It had nothing to do with how pretty you are or how valuable you are but he went his base urges. Now his loss is another man\u2019s gain or you can say him cheating was actually a blessing to you.<\/p>\n

OK, I am a woman in her 50s and I am on the dating sites and going to multiple meetups, I have been asked out my men my age but man! They are either overweight, have really bad teeth, or physical limitations like a bad knee. The men I want to pursue are handsome, fit, and financially secure. I am financially independent and I have been taken advantage of by a man my age so I don\u2019t want that to happen again. I know the handsome, fit, and financially sound men are looking for younger women so I have to compete with them for these types of men. The only way to do this is to be also be fit, well put together, get a little botox even, be confident, educated, happy, and fun!<\/p>\n

Anyway, I guess I am happy if most men in my age group decide to date down in age. It leaves more women available to me. I\u2019m literally laughing as I read this. I am 51 and in the best shape of my life. My body is as toned as J-Lo\u2019s, as I regularly dance, run and do Pilates.<\/p>\n

But you need to know how important it is to meet her parents. It\u2019s definitely important that as an older man you have financial stability. However, don\u2019t assume this is your most important drawcard. She go now<\/a> doesn\u2019t want to be pressured to join you on your life path. She\u2019d prefer you to forge a new path together, side by side. But the kind of woman you want to date likely doesn\u2019t want you to be this way.<\/p>\n

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I feel invisible in the states and being a white is no longer respected in the US. I know I am not entitled to anything, or deserve love\u2026.but it sure be nice to have a woman a woman in my arms again. I\u2019m in my early 50s, fit, no ED (thank goodness!) married for almost 28 years, and still in love with my wife.<\/p>\n

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Assume it\u2019s over if they aren\u2019t talking or interacting with you. If they aren\u2019t responding to texts, ignoring you online, or refusing to have a conversation about what happened, it\u2019s a sign that they\u2019re serious about not getting back together. If they were still interested in potentially getting back together, they\u2019d at least be open to interacting with you. While it definitely isn\u2019t fun to hear that your ex is dating someone new, rest assured that it\u2019s unlikely your ex and their new partner are going to stay together forever. Act like you aren\u2019t actively trying to \u201cwin them over\u201d and mean it.<\/p>\n

Sometimes forever isn\u2019t as long as we think. I\u2019m told on dates \u201ca great guy\u201d I\u2019ve adopted grandkids , work hard no debt , 56 young at heart , tall dark hair , no debts . Many woman after menopause want sex too as they don\u2019t have to worry about getting pregnant and those of us that take care of ourselves are better in bed than most men our age.<\/p>\n

I am not always looking for something better when I find a good man. It shocks me to hear about the inconsiderate and selfish acts of some women today. Seems that these women want to be recognized for a prosperous career, like men, but they don\u2019t care who they hurt in the process.<\/p>\n

Help us continue to bring \u201cthe science of a meaningful life\u201d to you and to millions around the globe. Psychologists can more accurately measure people’s well-being by taking into account how different cultures think about happiness. All of these patterns are problematic, because they involve unrealistic expectations. Greater Good spoke with Ury about how to avoid the pitfalls of dating and build the foundation for a solid relationship. Here is an edited version of our conversation. Waiting until you’re comfortable, even if it means waiting longer, could be better than introducing your partner to your other loved ones too soon.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Growing old together is not a problem, but starting out feeling very mismatched is. I\u2019m 50 yrs old almost 51 and have absolutely no problem attracting men. At one time I had no less than 15 male friends between ages of in my phone. Some I met personally\u2026some on dating site\u2026others school mates. All very […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[11005],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/emswitchgear.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/42041"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/emswitchgear.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/emswitchgear.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/emswitchgear.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/emswitchgear.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=42041"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/emswitchgear.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/42041\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":42042,"href":"https:\/\/emswitchgear.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/42041\/revisions\/42042"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/emswitchgear.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=42041"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/emswitchgear.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=42041"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/emswitchgear.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=42041"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}